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My reception location - photo from another wedding

I have reached to point in my planning where we think we are ready to officially book our ceremony/reception location.  I got engaged in August.  I think we looked at almost every regular wedding location in my area…even a few unusual spots.

So now we have to pick one.  I am lucky, on one hand, since my wedding is so far out.  I have plenty of time to think and view and waiver before I really have to make up my mind.  Those of you that are planning with less time….well I just don’t know how you do it.  I can’t help but get nervous when I picture us committing to one specific location.  Maybe I looked at too many?  I sort of feel like if I commit to this one I am going to miss something cooler that I just have not though of yet.

My fiance is so much more logical.  He has said, ” I like it, lets book it.”  No hesitation.  I think he can be in charge of all final decisions   I will do the research and narrow it down to the options I like and he can just pick one.

Is that a plan I can truely live with?  I doubt it!!!

So over the holidays many, many couples get engaged.  It is a wonderful time of year

Once you are engaged the thoughts of what to do next can be daunting (well after the fun part of telling everyone you know and updating your online Facebook status).

I have two pieces of advice. 

          First – research!  It is really worth it to take an entire day and call as many wedding vendors as you can.  Speaking with someone in person is very important when selecting your wedding vendors.  You may get offered discounts that are not on their website and it leads me to number 2.

           Second – like the people you hire!!!  You really should feel comfortable with ALL you wedding vendors.  You are trusting a very important event to their care.  If they rub you the wrong way now just think of how you will feel when they bug you on your wedding day.  Not worth it….I promise.

As always, advice is just a way for me to state my opinion and we all know about opinions (opinions are like butts, we all have them and sometimes they stink!!).  So go forth and plan plan plan….I hope you have fun doing it.